Crucial Success Skills Forged Through My Journey
The specific skills that I have developed over the years, number one is my therapeutic intervention skills with people, calibration and pattern detection skills, sensory acuity, creative thinking and decision-making. Now how these skills has contributed to my accomplishments? Through pattern detection and calibration skills, I have been able to identify the subtle nuances in human beings who come to me for coaching and guidance and also identify the patterns in the world and the industry which is basically training and coaching and coming up with workshops and programs and coaching models to help people who have been suffering from anxiety, fears, phobias, depression, over-thinking, insomnia, multiple other issues.
Because I developed the calibration, pattern detection, and sensory acuity skills, I was able to understand human beings better than the other people. Further, I was able to identify and foresee the problems even without people saying about it. And that has helped me to position myself and helped me reach the top position in the training and coaching, especially in the NLP training and coaching and corporate training and coaching in the country. Number two in terms of decision-making skills, I have developed the ability to make decisions in the most fastest manner, without delaying it, because of which I have been able to work with more than 200 corporate companies, because of which I have been able to come up with new training modules and concepts, because of which I have been able to go abroad and learn from different mentors so that's another thing which is helping.
Next is creative thinking, so I went and started attending programs and reading books on creative thinking, and lateral thinking so this helped me in creating new programs, creating new modules, and also during my one-to-one coaching and intervention with people it has helped me to come up with creative ideas to help people come out of their problems. Further also grows the organization, creatively helping people to come and be a part of the magic of change tribe. Creating the magic of change tribe that's a very new concept, a tribe concept is a very new concept in India, in the recent times, in the training and coaching industry. So these are the ways in which the skills that I have developed over the years has helped in my accomplishments.
Crafting Creative Opportunities from Every Challenge
Whenever there is any situation or an adversity that comes to me, I look at the next best possible move, as to, what I can do and I also operate from a solution-oriented thinking perspective and at the same time I do not worry too much about what has happened. I see what lessons that I can learn from this challenging situation and how I can move forward, what specific actions that I need to take, rather than worrying, is there anybody's support and help that I need to seek. Is there any skills that I need to develop? So to come out of the adversity that I am going through right now, I look at the concept called as neurological levels.
So I ask myself is it an environmental adversity or a challenge like COVID which is not in my control? Is it something to do with my skills, like do I need to develop my skills of marketing or coaching or selling, or is it something to do with my behaviour, do I need to change some behaviour of mine to overcome this adversity or is it my beliefs and values that I need to change or my vision and mission about life or myself needs to alter or my identity, what about my identity, maybe I am thinking that I am a introvert, I am not, I am a loser, from there I need to think that I am an extrovert, I am a winner. So I look at the neurological level model and identify what is the area that I need to work on, to come out of this adversity and take the actions to move forward. And also, if required, seek the help from my family, friends, my mentors, so that I get a different perspective of the situation as well.
My Impact
The impact that I have had through my work, the tangible impact, I have been able to help more than 1000 people come out of different psychological challenges, relationship challenges and psychosomatic issues including fears, phobias, anxiety, depression, people who have had migraines, allergies and people have filed their divorce papers and taken it back and leading a successful happy family life. So this is where I have brought about tangible results in the lives of people.
I have also worked with fishermen children, I have also worked with underprivileged kids, helping underprivileged children who are written off by the school, faculties, the teachers, the family members, the society, I trained 40 of them, in a school, in Thane and helped these children to get 100% pass mark in all the subjects and lead a life, which was a big surprise for the entire people who written off these children. That is another big achievement. I have worked with fishermen children and trained these kids. I work with orphanages in helping girl children and orphan kids to have a self-esteem and feel the confidence within themselves, that is something else which I work with in the society and the community.
Also I have influenced many people to take up the profession of training and coaching. Many people have come and they got influenced by seeing my success from a village boy to being able to travel to more than 10 countries and trained more than 1,25,000 people. There are many people who have got influenced by my achievements and they have taken up the training and coaching profession. Also the community connections, I have created a tribe of more than 1,500 people which has got Gold medallist Doctor's, Stanford graduates, Army officers, Navy commanders, CXOs of Fortune 500 companies, HR heads, Psychologists, Homemakers, Chartered Accountants, people from varied fields from more than 10 countries across the globe and across all states in India, so through this, the community connections have been fostered. People have been able to help each other from one city to the other city. That's another big achievement, which we have done.
Scaling New Heights in Personal and Professional Triumphs
For me, success means, I as an individual, how much impact, I have been able to bring in the world, in the lives of people who have been in touch with me, through my professional work and also in my personal life. Second, success for me, is not just about money, it means a balance in finances, family, health, social life and also personal growth. And I believe that I am a successful person because I have got a very good family, I am financially doing good in my life, I am healthy physically and mentally, I have built a network of people and tribe across the country so my social connections are also very good and I constantly up-skill and upgrade myself to keep myself going forward. This is how I define success.
Also, success for me is not competing with anybody. Success for me, the benchmark is, I compete with myself and I see how to make myself better from yesterday. That is my definition and benchmark for success. And having achieved all of this, having trained more than 1,25,000 people in more than 10 countries, worked with more than 200 corporates, these are all clear evidences of my accomplishments as an individual and showing that I have got two children, they are doing very well, I have got a wonderful wife, I have got a mother, my sister is doing well, my father passed away. So as a family, I have helped my sister to come up, I have helped her learn, I have taken care of my family for the last 20 years. So all of this put together, I am somebody who is a successful person.
The Synergy Between My Path and Recognition Values
My strong values are making a difference in the lives of people, building a community of like-minded people who want to learn, grow and share with each other. This I have already achieved, through creating a community, which has it roots built on trust, shared happiness and fostering meaningful relationships, which is very important for the growth of an organization as a leader, and also grooming the next level of leaders, who I can pass the baton to, once my life on planet earth is over and people can take over that and run the organization. Also coming from a small village from South India, to reaching the topmost position in NLP training and coaching in the country, clearly embodies the spirit of the award, because I have proven myself as a leader in this particular domain and hence my values and goals aligns with this particular recognition.